Getting a Deal on House Fees

Getting the best deal at the club often means working with your management on scheduling. For instance, my club opens at 4pm on Sundays and we are often short on girls on Sunday. Our club gets plenty of business on Sunday afternoons but without the girls its hard to keep things going.

So the management was offering free house to any girls who came in at 4pm. That’s a great deal, in fact. They could save themselves 40$ in fees just to show up early and get the best crowd on a Sunday, before 7pm when the crowd tends to thin out again before 9pm.

Our club is also offering free house to girls on weekdays who show up and are ready for night shift before 7pm. This is because man of the day shift dancers leave after 7 and there’s no girls to entertain the customers between 7-9 because a lot of then think its a good idea to show up later. they often miss out on the early money because of it.

So do yourself a favor and find out when the management is giving discounts on house. It pays to be to work on time so you can save a little extra and make a little extra too. And if your management doesn’t give deals on house fees find out why, maybe you can talk them into increasing their dancer count just by offering a discount.

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Exotic Dance Tips – Talk With Customers after your Stage

Exotic Dance Profits

Many times I have seen dancers who, after they finish their stage set, immediately go and sit by themselves or head for the dressing room.  Once you are done with your stage set, that’s the perfect opportunity to talk to customers. Don’t miss this opportunity to make money!

Even if you didn’t make any tips, the customers that were watching you dance with interest are likely candidates for conversation and a dance. Sometimes customers don’t want to go up to the stage so don’t take it personally. Use it as an opportunity to engage the customers after you finish your stage set.

For example, I watched a dancer who had banked (made a lot of money) on stage that didn’t even spend a moment of time talking with any customers after her set was done, and she didn’t make anything at all the next time she went up. She was hoping to make all of her money for the night on the stage and that is not a lasting or reliable way to make money in a strip club.

So make sure you take time to talk with the customers that tipped you. Acknowledging them after your set is the best way to open the doors to sales in the club. You only have a moment to do this before the next dancer grabs the attention of the room so take advantage of it and use your stage set as a talking point and an opener to making sales.


Talk with customers after your stage set, thank them for the tips and use this to initiate conversation.

Talk with the customers that were watching you with interest. They may need a push to get involved with what’s going on at the club and you can serve as their guide.

Remember you can always visit Exotic Dance Guide for more tips and information on how to be an exotic dancer..

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New Articles on Dealing with Staff and Keeping your Dancer Life Private

The site is growing every day! I’ve had so many new visitors and I know they are looking for more information on the Exotic Dance industry.

Several new articles were added to the site this week! I decided to cover some articles on how to work with staff in the club since it’s a necessary topic:

My Dj BoothArticle on how to work with your DJ and how to make a playlist: Dealing with the DJ. Working along with your Dj can help you to make money throughout the night! Get this important staff member on your team from day 1

Dancing Underover
Another important topic is how to maintain your privacy as a dancer. Read my article on 5 tips to keep your dancer life private – Dancing Undercover. It’s important to maintain your privacy especially if you don’t want family or friends to know that you are working as an exotic dancer.

Also there is a Twitter site and Facebook for ExoticDanceguide so you can always stay updated and join the discussion.

Tips on Dancing – Deliberate Dancing

Don't Be a Lazy Stripper!

Welcome to my blog! First in this series on dancing tips comes from my long time observation of dancers, not only while I was dancing but especially now that I’m working as a DJ.

I have something to say about newer, younger dancers in the business and their attitude while on stage. I noticed that many dancers, when they are on stage, don’t even try to perform like a dancer. They think that just shaking their booty is going to make them cash, but when they do that they don’t stand out from the crowd and easily blend in with every other dancer doing the same moves.

It’s a stage show, after all, not a chance for you to twerk mindlessly or lay on the stage, or lazily roll around. There is nothing sexy about this and it looks tacky. It may show that you are bored and you don’t want to bore the customers, who have seen every other girl out there shake her booty the same exact way all night long. Let’s face it, any woman can shake it, but it takes true talent to make dancing a performance art!

My suggestion is to make it a show. Actually do a strip tease where you spend half a song taking off your top or your bottoms. Slowly take your time teasing the customer so there is an atmosphere of anticipation. Please don’t take everything off in a hurry and kick your clothing across the stage like you are in a locker room. Every move should be deliberate so it is enchanting.

I come from an era when women actually danced, where they put on a show – not just briefly moved a body part to the beat and stared off into space while they were on stage. So if you are wondering why you are not making tips, its because you are doing the same mindless moves on stage without engaging the customers.

  1. Make sure you smile, and wave to a customer to get him to come to the stage. Guys will feel obligated to come see you and then you have engaged the customers in a fun way that will keep them happy. Make them part of the show.
  2. Actually make an effort to do a striptease, not just mindless repetitive dancing, but instead turn it into a show! Dance deliberately, be professional.
  3. Even if no one is watching there is always something going on in the club. Your next best customer could be coming through the door while you are on stage, so never, ever look bored.

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Welcome to the Exotic Dance Blog!

exdanceguideWelcome! If you’re here to learn about the art of exotic dance you are in the right place. My name is Demonica and I had been a dancer for well over a decade. I began the journey of making my website, Exotic Dance Guide back in 2009 for new dancers to learn about the art of exotic dance.

Since then, the exotic dance industry has changed. It’s an ever-evolving process. With the advent of social media, strip clubs and dancers have had to work harder to get and keep customer’s attention. I come from an era in dancing where people would clap and cheer and get involved in the club. It seems nowadays, the customers would rather play on their phones than watch the girls dance. That’s why as a dancer you have to learn how to engage the customers properly in order to keep their attention and make your money.

No worries! My website, Exotic Dance Guide, and my blog is here to help you on your journey to success in exotic dancing. Whether you have danced for years or you are just beginning, there is something for everyone here. thank you for visiting and be sure to bookmark and subscribe for updates.